
#807) The Big Chill (1983)
OR âGrief Is the Wordâ
Directed by Lawrence Kasdan
Written by Kasdan and Barbara Benedek
Class of 2025
The Plot: 15 years after their college activist days, seven friends reunite for a weekend in South Carolina following the suicide of their colleague Alex. Sarah and Harold Cooper (Glenn Close and Kevin Kline) serve as hosts, the only two of the friend group to marry each other, though Sarah still feels guilty about her affair with Alex years earlier. Karen Bowens (JoBeth Williams) is unhappy with her somewhat square husband Richard (Don Galloway) and no-so-secretly pines for Sam Weber (Tom Berenger), whoâs now a famous TV star. Meg Jones (Mary Kay Place) is determined to have a baby but canât decide which of her male friends should be the father. Michael Gold (Jeff Goldblum) is trying to pursue Alexâs girlfriend Chloe (Meg Tilly), who is more attracted to Nick Carlton (William Hurt), a Vietnam vet and drug addict. Itâs a long weekend as these Baby Boomers come to terms with what their lives have becomeâŠwait, this all sounds very familiarâŠ
Why It Matters: The NFR praises the filmâs ensemble, as well as its âhumor, tenderness, honesty, and an iconic soundtrackâ.
But Does It Really?: Iâm okay with âThe Big Chillâ being on the NFR, but just okay. The film is iconic enough and well-remembered and beloved by Boomers, but a modern day viewing is justâŠfine. As much as I love everyone in this ensemble, I ultimately didnât care about these characters. Making matters worse is fellow NFR entry âReturn of the Secaucus Sevenâ, a movie that covers much of the same ground as âBig Chillâdoes, but three years earlier. Weâll get to the comparisons later on, but long story short: âBig Chillâ earns its NFR standing on its reputation for its ensemble and its soundtrack, and while that’s more than enough to warrant NFR induction, that’s about as generous as I’m feeling right now.
Shout Outs: When Harold runs up to the attic to fight off a bat, he sings the âRaiders of the Lost Arkâ theme. Nice touch, Lawrence.
Everybody Gets One: Barbara Benedek began her career as a sitcom writer before teaming up with Lawrence Kasdan to write âThe Big Chillâ. Benedekâs post – âChillâ screenwriting resume includes uncredited rewrites on âPretty Womanâ and the screenplay for the 1995 âSabrinaâ remake. âThe Big Chillâ is also the NFR debut for a surprising number of its actors, including Glenn Close, Kevin Kline, and JoBeth Williams.
Title Track: Kasdan described the âbig chillâ as the departure from the warmth of youthful idealism towards the coldness of a more cynical adulthood. Although no one in the movie says the phrase âbig chillâ, this sentiment is discussed in so many words.
Seriously, Oscars?: âThe Big Chillâ received three major Oscar nominations: Best Picture, Original Screenplay, and Supporting Actress for Glenn Close. Unfortunately, âChillâ was left out cold, losing to, respectively, âTerms of Endearmentâ, âTender Merciesâ, and Linda Hunt in âThe Year of Living Dangerouslyâ. Coincidently, the 1984 Oscars were hosted by Johnny Carson, whose production company Carson Productions Group Ltd. produced âThe Big Chillâ as their first feature.
Other notes
- Letâs get the âSecaucus Sevenâ comparisons out of the way. While âBig Chillâ is based on Lawrence Kasdanâs time at the University of Michigan, the movie is not without its similarities to âSecaucusâ, also about a group of college friends reuniting years later and reassessing their beliefs and life choices. Having now seen both films, I feel like Pam in that âOfficeâ meme: âTheyâre the same movie.â There is some pretty noticeable overlap between âBig Chillâ and âSecaucusâ, with a few differences preventing one from being a carbon copy of the other (to start with, the budget for âBig Chillâ was literally 100 times more than âSecaucusâ). The biggest difference is the thematic grief that permeates “Big Chill”, making it a seemingly more serious film than the more lighthearted reunion of “Secaucus”. While I was originally under the impression Kasdan was unfamiliar with âSecaucusâ while working on “Big Chill”, it turns out he was; he and Benedek didnât start writing the screenplay until five months after âSecaucusâ was released (though Kasdan claims he had conceived the story years earlier). To âSecaucusâ director John Saylesâ credit, he seems to hold no grudges against Kasdan, and is quick to point out the differences between the two movies.
- On a related note, I bet the âSecaucusâ gang could beat up the âBig Chillâ gang in a rumble. They just seem like they fight dirtier.
- How much of this movieâs budget went to the music? Seriously, this movie is wall-to-wall hits. They even got the Stones! Given how much of a downer the subject matter is, you need the uplifting soul of the early â60s to keep things moving.
- If this movie were made today, this friend group would have all gone to college in the early 2010s and the filmâs soundtrack would consist of Rihanna, Adele, Bruno Mars, and Lady Gaga. Oh Time, why are you so mean?
- Everyoneâs favorite bit of casting trivia: Alexâs body being prepped for the funeral is all that remains of a performance by a young, unknown Kevin Costner. Weâll get into what happened to his other scenes later on.
- This movie has a great ensemble (almost all of them on the brink of greater fame), I just wish they got more to do than sit around and talk. This all being said, if youâre going to nominate one of these actors for an Oscar, Glenn Close is the right choice. I wouldnât call Sarah the beating heart of the story, but she does quietly hold the movie together with her warmth. Itâs crazy to think weâre only four years away from her stalking Michael Douglas and cooking a rabbit. Hey when is that making the NFR?
- A few questions about Kevin Kline/Harold: Is he doing a South Carolinian accent or a watered-down Michigan accent? And when did he buy Forrest Gumpâs house? And for the love of God will someone please get him a bigger pair of shorts?
- Shoutout to Jeff Goldblum; âBig Chillâ came out the same year as âThe Right Stuffâ, another Best Picture nominee and future NFR entry featuring Goldblum. This film shows us the very beginnings of what an unrestrained Jeff Goldblum performance could look like. Be afraid, be very afraid.
- The problem with trying to talk about this movie is that there arenât really scenes, just conversations. When I think back on âBig Chillâ, itâs people sitting in chairs talking about life and stuff (and who within the friend group theyâre trying to nail). I think thatâs why people recall the soundtrack with such fondness, and why the âAinât Too Proud to Begâ scene is the best remembered moment in the movie. Halfway through the proceedings, âAinât Too Proudâ revives the sagging energy and allows our characters the freedom to finally cut loose after all their grieving. Itâs a fun moment, I just wish it lasted longer.
- Letâs see, who havenât I mentioned yet? Mary Kay Place is good, though admittedly she gets the weirdest subplot. I enjoyed JoBeth Williams, as well as her frequent scene partner Tom Berenger as a Tom Selleck-type (I guess any Tom will do. Thank you!) I even liked Karenâs boring husband, as appropriately bland as the mayo sandwich heâs eating. William Hurtâs character had a bit too much going on to do it all justice, but Hurtâs clearly relishing the challenge. Side note: Nick was written specifically for Hurt, having starred in Kasdanâs directorial debut âBody Heatâ two years earlier. Meg Tilly does decent work as the group outlier, but doesnât get much to do other than look cute and be creepily hit on by Goldblumâs character. Donât worry Meg, the religious theatrics of âAgnes of Godâ arenât too far away.
- Shoutout to âIt Came from Beneath the Seaâ, the â50s monster movie the gang watches on TV at one point. I used to work by those piers being destroyed by that octopus.
- If the filmâs ending seems abrupt, thatâs because it wasnât the original ending. The initial plan was to end with a flashback to 1968 with everyone in college, including Kevin Costner as Alex. Ultimately, it was decided that after spending the whole movie talking about Alex, no performance could live up to audience expectations of the character, and the scene was understandably (and rightfully) cut.
Legacy
- âThe Big Chillâ was released in September 1983, and was one of the big hits of the year, grossing $56 million on an $8 million budget. The accompanying soundtrack was also a hit, going certified Gold in less than three months and certified Double Platinum within two years of the filmâs release.
- Lawrence Kasdanâs next film was 1985âs âSilveradoâ, in which he cast Kevin Costner as an apology for cutting him out of âBig Chillâ. âSilveradoâ ended up being a breakout performance for Costner, so technically we can draw a direct line from âBig Chillâ all the way to âYellowstoneâ and those âHorizonâ movies Costnerâs trying to make.
Listen to This: Three of the songs from this filmâs iconic soundtrack are featured in the National Recording Registry: âMy Girlâ by The Temptations, âTracks of My Tearsâ by The Miracles, and âWouldnât It Be Niceâ by The Beach Boys. âBig Chillâ artists Marvin Gaye, Aretha Franklin, Creedence Clearwater Revival, The Steve Miller Band, The Rolling Stones, and The Band are represented on the NRR with other songs.


